When the cistern is broken, fear not, by Emmanuel Ogbeche

This short piece is inspired by Ben200 in which he quoted Acts 15:39-40.

The verse states: “39 They had such a sharp disagreement that they parted company. Barnabas took Mark and sailed for Cyprus, 40 but Paul chose Silas and left, commended by the believers to the grace of the Lord.”

It is expedient I revert your mind to John 8:32 “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

As humans, we are bound to build relationships. Some through family, school, religious circles, occupation and so many other instances.

We sometimes become so enamoured of the relations we have and particularly those that seem to aid our endeavours.

So it becomes a near-anathema to imagine a crack, division and parting of ways when it becomes inevitable. Sometimes it leads to really bad blood.

Yes in every friendship, they must be the “foolish one.” But at what cost? It is in this wise that the verse by Luke the Evangelist makes sense. For clarity, Luke wrote Acts of the Apostles.

Two great Biblical figures parting company. So, who are you that shouldn’t part ways? In this life, it is fated that one would lose friends and friends will lose you, opportunities will pass, promises will be broken and disappointments will happen.

If you know these truths as St. John counsels, you will be at ease. Not every disagreement should lead to arguments and not all arguments should lead to quarrels. But if it were to happen, you move on.

I had cause to have sharp disagreement with a very big man before he fell from the apogee of power but now in prison.

I felt at that time he was destined to change my fortune. He was dilly-dallying. Making me to run errands even when he went on exile and no recompense. Then I lost it. He was left stunned when I told him to be careful before he ends up in prison.

The Great Baristo witnessed the scene and brokered peace. These days, when I visit him in remand, I see how relieved and grateful he is. All the hangers-on have disappeared because for them, it was what was in it for them.

The eternal cycle of loyalty by bread!

Are you worried about a friend that has made it and no longer belongs to your circle? Don’t! Are you confused that a supposed friend suddenly stops taking your calls? Don’t fret! The earth is about time and seasons. Besides, find your niche and thrive there.

If happiness and fulfillment were all about possessions, those who have it in abundance will not be suicidal. They won’t have BP and other associated health challenges like the commoners. So fear not!

In all, may you know the truth and may it set you free.